Dates can be either the most exciting or the most stomach-churning experience a person can have while trying to get to know someone. That’s where good-old dating questions come into play. So please, please don't use these questions to find out things about your partner that you will just end up resenting.
If you’re just looking for casual questions to ask someone on a first date, go here.
If you want to know what to say when you approach a girl for the first time, go here.
(Below are more serious questions) After you meet a girl/guy and while you are establishing a friendship, you should get answers to these questions before you start dating. They reveal a lot about what that person expects, and what that person is looking for in terms of their dreams, their spouse, their leisure time, and their ideals. In an ideal relationship, what would you spend the majority of your time doing?
You need to be with someone who you would actually hang out with, someone who enjoys the same things as you. or What do you expect from a man/woman in your life?
—————————————- Give the person time to think about these questions. Failed expectations are what causes a lot of disappointment.
If you know what the other person expects and desires from the onset, you know if you’re able and/or willing to meet the other person’s needs and wants.
When I was dating I remember constantly being smothered with that giant question like a bloated bear was sitting on my head, refusing to move. To magically stumble upon like finding the gold at the end of a rainbow that is being carried by a unicorn with leprechaun jockey.
But how are you supposed to know which one is the right one?
A better way to approach him is to ask him if he wants to play a sexy game of dirty truth or dare some night, maybe even after a few drinks to loosen yourselves up. If you go first, you need to choose a truth from your man's pile of truths.