"On my wedding-invitation RSVP cards, I left space for guests to write their favorite wedding wisdom.The tidbit that rings truest after almost nine months of marriage is: 'Attack the issue, not each other.' How it works: If my husband and I disagree about something, we stay focused on the issue and skip the personal put-downs." -- Melissa Gitter Schilowitz, 31, Metuchen, NJ "My grandmother insisted that I learn how to play golf.
Dennis says having ‘genital preferences’ in dating is transphobic. If you’re a man who wants your woman to have a vagina you’re a bigot. Also, are we to believe trans people are the only humans without that implicit bias built into their preferences?
Dennis released a video at about his theory on “cissexism”, which he says is interchangeable with “transphobia” and means[People] might argue that being attracted to women without vaginas in no way negatively affects trans people, but on the other hand I would argue it’s more complicated than that. If you’re a trans man who is only attracted to women with vaginas (I can’t believe I actually had to write that phrase) are you “cissexist” and “transphobic” as well?
We all have our implicit biases built into our preferences and gender isn’t as simple as just the genitals you have. Riley goes on to discuss the rebuttals to his “cissexism” argument, admitting that he has received many complaints from lesbians who claim he is engaging in “lesbian erasure”. It took a great deal of effort to even type the previous paragraph, so I’ll stop here and let the rest of the video speak for itself.
He goes on to say that he doesn’t deny any lesbian the right to prefer vaginas but not all women have vaginas and if a lesbian denies that being attracted to a woman with a penis is also a valid homosexual choice that is because she’s “cissexist”. Be assured, it is just more of the same gobbly-gook.
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