There will come a time when you will be interested in dating again, therefore trust after infidelity is crucial to your long term relationship success with another partner.Before you consider dating again, you may want to heal those residual effects of infidelity.
We drove home in stony silence – that is, I was silent.
Confronted with the evidence, he didn’t try to deny his affair: there was no point. When I woke up the next morning, hungover and still shocked, Simon was already loading the car.
When I got back into the car outside the shop, I could hear Simon’s phone bleeping in the glove compartment. What’s more, given that we were running a family home and had three children to bring up, he was squandering money we could ill afford on glamorous nights away with another woman. But I’d believed we were in this together, doing our best for our children, and trying to support one another through the trials of midlife.
Simon seemed to be trying his utmost to be friendly. The late nights at work; the conferences that had stretched out over weekends; the work calls that couldn’t be ignored.
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If you’ve been the victim of marital infidelity and are now working through the divorce; healing infidelity can be a daunting process.
As much as you think to yourself, how will I move on?
It was the last day of our summer holiday in Cornwall, and we’d had a glorious time. Simon decided that he’d take the children to the beach for a final play in the sand. Simon the hard-working doctor had turned into Simon the philanderer.
Sure, my husband Simon had been taking a few work calls here and there, but the sun was out, the children were having fun, and life was good. I said I’d drive to the next village and buy a bottle of bubbly, so we could toast what a brilliant fortnight it had been. I was sure that whoever he was seeing had to be a colleague – and it turned out that I was right; she was a married fellow registrar. We’d been married for 17 years and we’d had ups as well as downs.
On the other hand, I knew things weren’t the same after so long, and three children.