Though men have been enjoying May-December romances forever, women haven’t been afforded the same freedom necessarily.Culturally, the older woman/younger man dynamic is perceived as an oddity, or a fluke.
One of your cub’s favorite things about you is you’ve got “vintage” style. He won’t like if you imply he doesn’t know what he’s doing.
He wants to know what’s interesting and popular in your age group. Don’t try to keep up with a young buck by suddenly wanting to go out all throughout the week and drink hard after work. If there are certain things you need to happen in bed, present them in a way so it’s fun for both of you, and not just all in service of your big O.
Add the fact that younger guys have more stamina, and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven.“A younger man has more energy and is more willing to try things,” says Lindsay Slosberg, dating expert for the app Let’s Date.
“In turn, doing new things increases dopamine in the brain, triggering a desire to spend more time together and assisting in lighting your sexual fire.”An even bigger bedroom bonus?
You’ll thrive in the game of dating younger men if you can pin that down, and if you can avoid the bad behavior of your fellow 40-plus felines.
Trying to dress like you’re half your age makes you look twice your age.You probably don’t have the abs you used to back in the day, so get acquainted with flowy tops.The good news is your girls probably grew with age and maybe a little weight gain elsewhere. Play the music you like when he comes over, suggest movies from your youth on movie night, and for goodness sake do not keep up with the Kardashians.Dating someone younger—whether you’re two or three years his senior or are talking cougar territory—certainly can work (look at Eva Longoria and her 4-years younger beau), but being an “older woman” in a relationship does tend to come with certain perks and downfalls.If you want to make things work, be sure you can handle the following. Men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone, while women typically reach theirs in their 30s and 40s.Sex in the City really could have been called Cougar in the City.