Carlie had no idea that her innocent calls caused Jack to feel that she wasn't the elusive, thrilling girl he first thought she was.

Never Call First This is the oldest golden rule in the book and today many women disagree.
In fact there are entire groups of people that do not agree with this but since the beginning of time men have been much more interested in something that is a bit of a challenge than something that comes too easily.
Being unreliable with his communication is a bad habit that has nothing to do with you.
Growing up many of us heard never to call a guy and to let him call you first.
Then after a couple of days, Jack thinks, "It feels like the newness is wearing off fast with her." But he still likes her and looks forward to seeing her again. You'll see how greatly your relationship is strengthened when HE calls YOU.
" Jack stops thinking about Carlie all the time like he did in the beginning. In Calling Men, I will show you why my methods work, so you will understand this way of thinking completely.
This is not to say that women should never under any circumstances call a man but there are some guidelines that certainly should be followed.
That is if you are looking to encourage specific feelings in a man.
Why make plans when he can get the women to call him and take care of it? You can feel free to offer an alternate time, which let's him know you are interested.