So the fact that you are ten years or even twenty years older than her is not such a big problem for her as it is for you.However, we can turn it into a big issue when we approach women with the ‘I am just a dirty old man’ program running at the back of our thoughts.Men who have waited to have kids or who had kids with their first wife but perhaps not as many as they would have liked, are looking for a fertile woman.
Dating younger men after divorce
Sorry to go all caveman on you, but it doesn’t matter how metro sexual you think you are.
Your default sexual preferences were designed by mother nature with the sole goal of continuing the existence of the species.
First, Beth reviewed the literature and research we had on file.
With this in mind, I reviewed our interviews with men and women who were planning to marry and videos of two focus groups we had run with single men.
Older man, younger woman is a staple dynamic in the celebrity world and among successful men, it’s not rocket science when you see a beautiful young woman with an older maybe unattractive, but wealthy man to figure out money is the key attraction, in these relationships.
A lady I know described her marriage to a man 20 yrs older as a kind of weighing up of options, at 22 she could date other hot 22 year olds, who could take her for a beer and a taco, or she could date 40 something men who could take her on a cruise with champagne.
Those were the ages of Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore when the couple tied the knot last year, making their highly publicized May-December romance official.
But even though their older woman-younger man relationship may be among the world's most visible, it's not that unusual anymore.
Men are attracted to younger women because we are genetically pushed in this direction.
The mistake we make is we assume that women are being pushed in the same direction, and they are not!
Dating in your late 30s (especially if you are dating after divorce with kids like me) is sort of like sifting through a garbage can, hoping to find a huge diamond and a pair of Manolo Blahniks.