They use real life examples to illustrate the harm you could come to if you were with some of the other guys they know so that they can distract you from what they are doing. When his phone rings or beeps with a text message, he races for it. Obviously if you’re a woman that gets jealous when he so much as looks in the direction of the female species, I would skip over this point… I always hear alarm bells when I get approached by a guy and he manages to slip in something sexual, something far too over familiar very early into the conversation. When you talk to him in a public place, are his eyes wandering to other women as they walk by? Beware of men that don’t have even one friend amongst their crew that they can ‘look up to’.If he is shady about taking or receiving calls, I would ask yourself what he is trying to hide. Men that are focused on getting a peek at your vagina rather than getting to know you, are Player Playa’s. This is a clear sign of disrespect but if it’s a consistent habit, it’s a sign of a guy that’s not interested in playing one on one. If your man has lots of friends that are shaggers, babyfathers with babymama drama, men that abuse, trust me when I say that he’s not learning very much that will do you any good. This shows a blatant disrespect for you and your time.
Is he always taking calls in another room when you’re there? Men that consistently hang around with men that are open about their negative relationship behaviour do so because they can elevate their status and think that they are better with women than they are. When it’s occasional you can let it go, but when it happens consistently, I would question what is preoccupying his time. He lavishes you with gifts to make up for the things that he has done wrong.
If your man is just anal retentive, skip over this one, but in general when guys are inflexible about their time and seem to slot you into the gaps, it’s a clear indicator of the possible existence of another woman in his life. A man that consistently turns up to your place late at night does not mean you any good.
Sure it can be fun to be flirtatious, but when you get down to your soul you want much more than just some recreational pleasure. Realize that you are an incredible amazing individual and that you are worth far more than even you realize.
You want a person you can share your life with who has the same values that you do. That is why life can be challenging for you sometimes because you are unique and that places you in a class by itself.
As much as the world changes, the above statement still holds true.
These values have always existed and no matter what progression the world makes towards changing them, there are ingrained in our DNA.
It’s easy to play with these factors because you can’t exactly force people to reveal themselves when they say they’re not ready. They can’t resolve themselves to the fact that they need to open up to people, so they come up with an online persona that reveals only the most non-incriminating details. It’s is especially hard for them when they see the competition, so they exaggerate their good points to draw more people towards them. They can be gold diggers, scammers, perverts, or even criminals. If that doesn’t help, you better take everything that person says with a grain of salt, or you could end up being Catfished or robbed of all your money. [Read: How to catch a Catfish – online fakers revealed] Liar alert: the ones who lie about their looks Some people lie about their appearance because they feel that their flaws can overshadow who they really are.
They can be insecure and really guarded because of this.
It’s highly likely that they no longer look like that, but they’re probably just insecure about the way they look now.
They’re still worth giving a chance, in my opinion.
Ladies we’ve all encountered that too good to be true, sweet talker that always has the right things to say, makes you feel like the only girl in the world when you’re together, and looks like ‘the one’ right from the beginning.