Sooner or later if you truly desire a relationship you must jump in the dating pool and make it a big splash. Because of many guys recently like myself have come out in their 40’s and I hate to say it but there’s serious competition out there based on the numbers . And if you don’t have a great photo, ask that same friend to snap a nice candid shot for you to post. Here is, in my opinion, a good example of a great pic.
The dating pool has never been more interesting and challenging. If you are going to date online, spend time writing a great profile that captures you in the best light. Don’t have a photo with your ex erased or with a bunch of friends. It is fun and classy: If you are looking for Prince Charming , he will not come to your door with the glass slipper if you are not out there finding him .
I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.
To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.
By Guest Writer Marcello Rollando I am in my fifties and I have been dating for the last 5 years. My gay friends say that Gay dating is not like It used to be especially now that we are all older.
I wrote this article as a way of giving back to the community that I love. There definitely is a learning curve to dating after 40.
You must make a list of the qualities you’d like to find in the people you want to date . Many of us at our age are driven by a deep knowing that we were born for a certain reason.
What are the non-negotiables for you in a relationship? Maybe, you feel that your life is not totally fulfilled yet , and you have decided that you don’t want to waste your time anymore.
Of course, there’s something romantic, alluring and even reassuring about dating a man who’s quite a bit older than you.
These men tend to be way more well-established and courteous, they’re chivalrous and you’ll never hear the words, “let’s hang out” ever again.
An older man and younger woman relationship is not only one of the most common motifs in dating, it’s also one of the most popular.