This year his wife went through all the chats and pictures we were exchanging. She told my husband and sent every picture to him and all my friends. He could not imagine the woman he trusted so much could do a thing like this.
You could honestly ask him if he really wants to follow this direction in life and lose what he has..ask it in a serious way but alos in a way that "allows" him to be truthful without fear of..death from you.
This way you might possibly get to the mans' heart and his truer feelings.
Honestly, I don’t know when I am going to forgive myself. You don’t want to go through the same path, do you? If you have been cheated on, may God give you the strength to forgive your partner. And may we learn to love our partners and talk when there is a problem.
I am searching everywhere for answers but my heart is still shaking. I would not say anything more, but if you are planning to cheat, please, please, please, by the mercies of our Lord, DON’T!! I know it’s hard and maybe I am not the right person to say it. May we remember that when we were marrying them, we believed they were the best choice of life partners. Thank you Beatrice, for allowing yourself to be openly vulnerable and share your story and your regrets.
I am having a really hard time trying to understand this and to me it feels like he cheated on me.
The porn made me feel insecure because he liked girls that look nothing like me, but the chat line thing was him actually interacting with someone else and that really hurts me.Then when the phone bill came a few months ago there was a lot of strange numbers on it. Now, in my opinion he cheated on me, He says that it...Then when the phone bill came a few months ago there was a lot of strange numbers on it. Now, in my opinion he cheated on me, He says that it isn't cheating in anyway, that I didn't want him to look at other girls sexually and he wasn't - He was just letting another girl talk dirty to him until he climaxed.I want to share with you a sad testimony that I hope (and this woman hopes) will help others. I will include a few comments in [brackets] that could help, as well. I am one of those women and very ashamed of myself. I didn’t take the chats seriously and told myself that I would stop the moment I got married to the love of my life. When he came back 2 years ago, I was already married. He got married a year ago and sadly, we still continued chatting. Mind you, I was stupid enough to send him my naked photos! In my very honest words, what was here was lust, no love, and no emotional connection. I was so ashamed of myself, I could not stop shaking for a whole week. I have cut off all the communications with this man —the emails, the phone, etc. And even though my husband has forgiven me and I have asked God to forgive me, this haunts me. I wish I did things differently and had been honest with my husband.Beatrice, from Kenya, wrote the following in the comments under the article, How We Found Forgiveness After an Affair. If only I could turn back the hands of time, I would not have done the unthinkable to my husband. And during those 2 years, I have caused my husband great emotional pain. Sadly, I was sex chatting him since he was in the U. In fact, sometimes I would tell myself to have fun and get over it before London burns. I was wondering what would happen and was cursing myself for doing what I did. I would not have hurt him this way or broken his trust in me.Online sexual activity can involve various activities, such as viewing explicitly sexual materials, participating in an exchange of ideas about sex, exchanging sexual messages, and online interactions with at least one other person with the intention of becoming sexually aroused.