Don’t make inappropriate remarks and never start an argument in public.
Show them that you respect them by listening carefully to what they say and always think about how your actions may affect them before you do something.
For those Vietnamese guys who don’t have a degree, it is too hard to find a Viet wife in America, Canada, Australia and others.
As you know, the Vietnamese men outnumber women so these ladies are proud of themselves.
In his eyes finding a “decent” Vietnamese woman is the same process as finding a decent car: Preferably not a second hand (no divorced woman, no single mothers, no girls who have had foreign boyfriends before; should have a high market value – a well-sought after commodity), not too old (preferably the girls should below the age of 24, regardless of how old you are), should not have any scratches or defects (no tattoos; no kids; not too many ex-boyfriends; non-smoker; non-drinker; should not visit the bars), preferable from a good brand (the poorer she is, the better), it should not cost too much for maintenance (Johnson advises us to give a maximum of $300 US dollar a month to the girl to be your girlfriend) and you should have it thoroughly checked before you are using it (the girls should have had a blood test regardless of how many sex partners you have had).
I even think that many people would even love their car more than Johnson loves his women.
While the marriage market for other Asians (Chinese, Singaporeans and Koreans) in Vietnam is certainly booming (as can be seen here: I am however afraid that the more “Johnson’s” come to Vietnam, the more the Vietnamese bride and prostitution market will cater to western foreigners, bringing all the nasty stuff which Thailand and the Philippines is suffering from at the moment.
Vietnamese men have a hard time to find a decent wife in the United States of America or in other Western countries.
I have yet to hear a story about a Vietnamese girl with several western sponsors, being a drug and gambling addict, having a local boyfriend preying on her money she receives from the foreigners and having a family extorting her and pushing her into prostitution.
I’m pretty sure that those girls also do exist in Vietnam, and I am certainly sure that prostitution in Vietnam is as big as in Thailand or anywhere else in SEA, but Vietnamese girls scamming western foreigners has yet to be a big phenomenon in Vietnam. v=m–5_Q0k Pm Q&feature=related and there are many horrors stories to be found (such as here: and here: for foreigners there are a lot of “good” and “decent” girls available.
However, because maintaining a positive reputation and showing respect for family is still highly regarded in Vietnam, etiquette rules for dating are in place to ensure that men and women find respectful, virtuous and family-oriented partners to marry.